A Serving Leadership Response to Betrayal

Luke Kuepfer • May 7, 2018

A Serving Leadership Insight from the Life of Jesus Christ (Matthew 26:47-50)

In Matthew 26:47–50, Jesus was betrayed by one of his own disciples, Judas Iscariot. Accompanied by an armed contingent to ensure Jesus’ capture, Judas addressed Jesus as “rabbi”—a term of respect—before kissing him. It was an act of contemptuous betrayal. In his nonviolent style, Jesus forbade resistance and offered himself up. “Do what you came for, friend,” he addressed Judas. The term “friend” in this case is more akin to an associate than for one with whom you have close fellowship. Jesus recognized Judas’ hypocrisy, yet never reacted violently or bitterly. He also was clearly in charge. He didn’t summon legions of angels or direct his disciples to fight off his opponents. In fact, he did exactly the opposite to accomplish his purpose. This was in direct contrast to the sword-wielding zealots with whom his betrayer was allied as the name “Iscariot” suggests. Jesus was perceptive, purposeful, and peace-loving.


Lead, love, and serve, like Jesus!

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KEY QUESTIONS: Have I ever faced betrayal by a close friend or associate ? How would I react today if I was put in that situation again? What needs to happen in my heart for “peace-loving reactions” to be my default response?

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